First, use of personnel went to the temple
people know, one into the temple, first of Amitabha Buddha, welcoming smile, and in his north, it is the bad guy in the black mouth of Veda. But according to legend a long time ago, they were not in the same temple, but were in charge of a different temple. Mi Le Buddha
warm happy, so very many people coming, but he do not care, losing things, not good management accounts, so still make ends meet. While the Veda is an expert in management accounts, but cloudy with a face all day long, too serious, and made fewer and fewer people, cut off the last incense.
Buddha incense, it was found in the investigation of this issue, it will be the two of them in the same temple, the Mi Le Buddha is responsible for public relations, Xiaoying Octagon off, so incense big wang. The Veda Untouchables, Zi will be more beads, then put him in charge of financial, strictly. In two of the division of labor, the temple thriving scene. In fact, the master
the eyes of the employer, not useless, as the martial arts master, without precious sword, defloration Fei Ye can hurt, the key to see how.
Second, a person to buy a parrot parrot
seen a parrot before the mark: This parrot will be two languages, the price two hundred yuan.
the mark before the other parrot said: This parrot will be four languages, price four hundred yuan.
Which to buy it? Two are glossy coat, very flexible and cute. This man turns ah turn, could not decide.
results suddenly found an old toothless, parrots, scattered dark coat color, price of eight hundred yuan.
called the man rushed to the boss: the parrot would say that eight is not a language? The owner said: no. The man strange: Why is old and ugly, and no ability, the value of this number would it? The owner replied: Because the other two parrots call the parrot owner.
This story tells us that true leaders, not necessarily how strong their ability, just to understand trust, understand decentralization, treasure, will be able to unite more than their own power, so as to enhance their social status.
Instead many people have very strong capabilities because it is too perfectionist, hands-on, what people do not like myself, and finally can only do the best research staff, sales representatives, can not become good leaders.
Third, the kangaroo cage
day and found the kangaroo from the zoo keeper ran out of the cage, and then met to discuss, agree that the height of the cage is too low. So they decided to cage Mega height from 10 to 20 meters high. The results next day they went outside to find the kangaroo, so they decided then heightened to 30 meters height.
actually did not expect the next day they all went outside to see kangaroos, so much tension administrators decided to lamb, the height of the cage, increasing the height to 100 meters.
giraffe and a few kangaroos a day, while chatting with, And by the end of the course to no avail. Management What is it? Management is to first analyze what the primary and the secondary contradictions, and understand something of the
IV, King Wen of Wei Bian Que's medicine
asked doctors Bian Que said: brother best, the second brother, my worst. . Because most people do not know what he had to eradicate the cause, so he does not enjoy going; the brother cures a disease in its early time. Most people think that he can only treating minor illness, so his fame is only the village. And I was seriously ill at the time of treatment. Most people see me in the meridians on the needle tube bleeding, dressing and other major surgery on the skin, so I thought of my highly skilled, well-known result reverberates nationwide. >
management experience: as a matter of control after control, a matter of control than pre-control, but unfortunately not caught most of the business management experience to this point, until the wrong decisions caused significant damage before seeking cover. But often a great reputation even invited the
V.
music suddenly have guests pay only to the person guest house, see the host family's kitchen chimney is straight on, next to have a lot of wood. Guests tell the owner that the chimney to change song, timber to be removed, otherwise there could be fire, the owner is not listened to any said.
home owner really soon caught fire, the neighbors quickly came around the fire, the last fire was extinguished, so the sheep slaughtering master cooking, dinner neighbors to pay them credit for fighting, but did not, please suggest that he had moved to timber take the chimney song changed the people.
was the owner, said: was guest of honor, really strange things happen!
management experience: Most people think, enough to settle or resolve business process issues in a variety of difficult people, that is, good managers, in fact, this is open to question, saying: Prior to suffering in the first place, has become more than disorder in the following this perspective, the prevention of business issues were, in fact better than the business problem solvers
six, save
in Field fierce battle, the captain suddenly found an enemy aircraft diving down to the ground. To stick and found that enemy dive not hesitate to lie down. Captain can not lie down immediately, he found that he forty-five meters away from a little distance where the soldier was still standing. He was too busy to think more like
, a diving fighter flying the small tightly under pressure in the body. At this point a loud noise, splashed with mud rained on them. Captain patted the dust, a look back, suddenly shocked: I just own that position in which the bombing into a pit.
seven out
ancient times, there are two brothers, each taking a trip with a suitcase. Along the way, the brothers have heavy luggage will be overwhelmed. They had tired of the right hand left hand, right hand and left hand tired. Suddenly, the brother stopped to buy a pole in the street, two suitcases on either side of the hanging pole. He stirred up two boxes on the road, they started to feel a lot easier.
linked these two stories may be some far-fetched, but they do have striking similarities: the story of the little soldier and brother are lucky, but even more fortunate is the story of the Captain and his brother, because they but also in helping others help themselves!
management experience: on the road in our life, is sure to encounter many difficulties. But we are not all know that the road ahead, move away at the foot of a stumbling block to others, sometimes just for their future careers!
VIII, king fish, have a fisherman's son
has first-class fishing techniques been known as However,
so often to the people telling a worried mind: from the basic things to teach and tell them how to weave nets catch fish most likely how the do not disturb fish, boating, and how the net most likely to please the fish into the vat. they grow up, I also teach them how to know the tides, the fish identified I worked hard all year round ...... flood summed up the experience, I teach them without reservation, but they did not keep up with technology fishing techniques poor fisherman than I am the son! > tell a passerby heard him, asked: br> obvious. you only teach them technique, but no lesson to impart to them, for the order, there is no lack of experience and lessons learned, as can people became great! > An old monk, who gather around with a bunch of devout disciples. That day, he asked his disciples to fight a Nanshan Tam person to wood back. Disciples rush to line the river not far from the mountain, everyone was stunned. I saw the flood from the mountains which dropped out in any case can never expect to cross the river firewood. Without success, his disciples were a little dejected. Exception of a young monk and master relative calm. Teacher asked why, the young monk took out an apple from her and handed the master said, had not the river firewood can not play, see the river have apple trees, I dig the only one apple tree to pick a . Later, the young monk has become the master of the mantle-human transmission.
the world have to go finish the road, the river also had not. Can not cross the river turn and return, and also the kind of wisdom. But the real wisdom but also in the river to do one thing: thinking of flying kites, off an Ancient and modern historical view, that holds such a belief in life who have achieved the ultimate breakthrough in life and ultra
ten, right hand left hand
popular a jingle on the table: holding his wife's hand, as if the right hand grip left hand.
Whenever someone read out: the familiar and unfamiliar views of a table and people will laugh and laughed, and the atmosphere relaxed immediately. Of course, this is based on a common understanding of people of the jingle - feel accurate description of place.
one day they begin at the dinner table was also during this doggerel, the men smiled enthusiastically as usual.
later found a woman on the table did not laugh. The men hastened to say joke not take it seriously. Seriously did not expect a woman to say: The most wonderful thing is this First, the left hand is the most that can be trusted right hand; second, left and right hands to each other is their own; third, any other hand tell you how excited pleasant wits, you can walk away after all, only the left hand, throw off you on the incomplete, is not it? A table of men are admired, praised the woman's understanding of the profound and unique, the woman said dismissively: What is the profound and unique, you may wish to go back and read it to listen to their wives and see what they say.
Men's really courageous of them go back to test his wife, the understanding wife who really are the same with the lady on the table.
they are all left-handed, the men of course, to the left of dollars.
and they are right, of course they make the right hand to
XI choice
a farmer rescued from the flood of his wife, his children had been drowned.
Later, people talking. Some said he was right, because the child can have another wife but not the death and resurrection. Some said he was wrong, because his wife can be another one, the child can not died and rose again.
I listened to people talk, but also puzzled difficult decision: If you could only save one person, whether his wife should save it, or save the children?
So I went to visit the farmer and asked him was how to think.
he replied: br> way home, I reflected on the peasants, then said to myself: the so-called life is so many choices.
second, the simple truth
past, there are two hungry people has been a gift of the elderly: a fishing rod and a huge basket of fresh fish. Among them, a person in a basket of fish, another person asked for a fishing rod, so they parted ways. Place to get fish people put up with dry wood from the fire to cook the fish, and he devoured, there is no product out of the meaty fish, suddenly, even the fish soup which he ate his shirt, and soon, he starve to death next to the empty creel. Another person is carrying a fishing rod continue to go hungry, hard step by step walk to the beach, but when he saw not far from the patch of blue ocean, his body also finished the last bit of energy, he can only helplessly world with endless regret doing nothing.
there are two hungry people, they also received a gift of the elderly rod and a basket of fish. But they did not go our separate ways, but agreed to work together to find the sea, They only cook a fish each time they travel through the distant, came to the beach, then on the two days of fishing began a few years later, they built a house, with their respective families, children, have their own fishing boats built, and lived a happy and peaceful life.
only the immediate interests of a person, will eventually get the joy was short-lived; one goal will be high, but we must face the reality of life. Only the ideal and reality combine it be possible to become a successful person. Sometimes, a simple truth, but enough to give meaningful life inspiration.
XIII
not you think that the two traveling angels to spend the night in a wealthy family. The family was rude and refused to let them spend the night in a comfortable guest bedroom, but in the cold basement to find a corner for them. When they make the bed, the older angel saw a hole in the wall, to dig it repaired. When the younger angel asked why, the older angel replied: The couple they are very warm, put out only a little food to entertain guests, and then letting out their beds to the two angels. The next morning the angels found the farmer and his wife in tears, their only source of income - a cow died. The younger angel was infuriated and asked the older angel why, what are the first family, the old angels to help them repair hole in the wall, second family had poor or hospitality guests, while the older angel did not stop the cows death.
unwilling to share his wealth, so I fill the hole in the wall. Last night, the god of death to call the farmer's wife, I gave him the cow instead. Things are not what they seem. Sometimes the surface of things is not it the way they should. If you have faith, you just need to trust that will always be rewarded. You may not know it until later ......
XIV, cattle
we travel the road to the country, saw a farmer to forage eaten by cows to shovel the roof of a hut on, can not help but wonder, so he asked:
dismiss it on the ground; but I put it barely enough to get a roof, it will try to eat until nothing left to eat all the hay. > This is happening in the UK a true story.
there was a lonely old man, had no children, and infirm. He decided to move to nursing homes. Announced the sale of his beautiful old house. Buyers flocked to hearing the news. Residential reserve price £ 80,000, but people will soon be Scoop it 10 million pounds. The price is still rising. Deep on the sofa in the elderly, depression everywhere, yes, but for health status can not, he will not sell this building to accompany him through the greater part of the house.
a simply dressed young to old eyes, bent down and whispered: will ensure that you still live here, and I drank tea, read newspapers, walking, happy music almost every day - believe me, I will take care of you of my heart! residential price of 1 million pounds to sell him.
complete the dream, do not necessarily have to fight in cold blood and fraud, and sometimes, as long as you have a love heart on it.
XVI has given
old carpenter was ready to retire, he told the boss that they have to leave the house building industry, home with his wife and children enjoy their grandchildren.
boss could not bear his good worker go and asked if he could help to build a house, the old carpenter said I could. However, we later see that his heart was not in work, he uses a soft material, out of the rough work. When built the house, the boss handed him the keys to the door.
If he had known it in to build their own house, how could he like that? Now he is to live in a shoddy house!
we are not it the same. We casually When we alerted their situation, trapped deep in its own already built It as the carpenter you think of your house, every day you knock a nail into, coupled to a board, or erect a wall, built with your wisdom take it! Your life is only to create your life, not smooth reconstruction, even if only one day to live, must live the day beautiful, noble, wall plaque reads: > Seventeen remind self
an old lady sitting by the roadside looking at a wall not far from always feel that it will soon collapse, see some people walked over to the wall, she kindly reminds us: The old lady is very angry: Three days later, many people walk past the wall and did not encounter danger. The fourth day, the old lady was a little strange, but also a little disappointed, not help it come to foot of carefully, but at this time, the wall collapsed, the old lady was buried in the brick dust, the Qijueshenwang.
often very easy to someone else, it is clear, but it can clearly be time to remind myself it is hard. So, many dangers from their own, the old lady will be so sad
eighth born, windows
have a wife complained over the years across the wife is very lazy, Look, she hang the clothes outside in the yard, there are always spots, I really do not know how she even clothes are washed into the way ......to her home, not the opposite of his wife only to find dirty laundry. Careful friend took a piece of cloth, to the wife of gray stains on the windows erased, said:
nineteenth, habits and natural
a small pillar, a length of thin chain, tying is maintained an extremely heavy weight of the elephant, this is not ridiculous? But this absurd scenario can be seen everywhere in India and the state of Qin. Elephant Man are tame, like an elephant or a small time to tie it with a chain or steel columns in the cement column, no matter how small as the struggle can not break free. Elephant gradually getting used to not struggle, until long into the elephant could easily break the chain when not struggling.
tame as tame tiger who would have been as successful as a human being, he made a vegetarian since childhood Tigers until the tigers grow up. I do not know the tiger meat, nature will not hurt. Tame the tiger's fatal mistake was to pay after he fell to the net tiger licking his blood flow to the ground, the tiger can not receive a lick, and finally tame the tiger who will eat.
baby elephant is to chain up, but elephants are being used to tie up.
tiger had been used to tie, and tame the tiger who died in habit (he was accustomed to his tiger does not eat people).
used to tie almost everything, but can not be tied by chance. Such as the bird accidentally tasted the blood of the tiger.
twenty, leaving a gap for others
a famous entrepreneur in his report, an audience member asked: What? He asked:
He answered no comment on these: a full stop, be sure to leave a gap, so that my staff to fill it. In fact, this is a management wisdom, is a higher level with a satisfactory overall.
a tree to monkeys, it kept climbing; to Tiger hill, let it vertical and horizontal. Perhaps this is the highest level of enterprise management personnel.
the twenty-first, Ma
horse, had free run wild in the mountains, thirsty, drink spring, tired, they sleep on the floor the sun, carefree. But since the horses, to change the fate of the horse, it's wearing a bridle on the cage, placed back in the saddle with it, tied it, the horse has a mortality rate two to three out of ten, and then It is something forced transportation and forced it on the line thousands of miles, in its feet nailed Tiezhang, more than half the mortality rate of horses. Ma has always been useless without rules of the animal and let it absorb the essence of the sun and moon, heaven and earth, Aura, useless and inactive, was also able to enjoy the later years, educate it, let it know how to etiquette, but the lives of its victims .
were it not so? Under the constraints of the rules we have lost the me all day to follow the development of propriety and justice to others, forcing yourself to do not want to do, limited how much life is left?
XXII, director of the State of Lu useless
have a good series of straw sandals, his wife is good at weaving Sclerotium. He wanted to move to more countries. Friends said to him: But the more people are accustomed to long hair. With your strengths, not your place to go with, so they do not make the poor, are likely to do? social environment needs to be appropriate. If you need from the social environment, their expertise will lose value. Therefore, we have according to community needs, determine their own actions, and better to play to their expertise.
xxiii, a stupa mice
rats wandering around the pagoda on top of their home.
pagoda in life is really very happy, It can cross freely between the layers, and can enjoy the rich offerings. It even enjoy the privileges that others can not imagine that those unknown secrets, which are free to chew; people afraid to face the Buddha, it has the freedom and leisure, the rise time, and even leave some excretion in the Buddha head material.
believers burn incense and kowtow every time the mouse is always looking at the intoxicating smoke, slowly rising, it whip the nose, heart chuckle: that kneeling on the knees!
round, steel glass story
a farmer, a two-year junior high school read-only, no money to continue for his family to go to school. He dropped out of school to go home and help his father farm three acres Susukida. In his 19 years old, his father died, the family's burden of all the pressure on his shoulders. His mother to take care of poor health, as well as a paralyzed grandmother in bed.
eighties, agricultural contracting households. He dug into a puddle ponds, like fish. However, village cadres told him, paddy fields can not fish, can only grow crops, he had to fill the reservoir again. It became a joke in the eyes of others, he is a want to get rich, but a very foolish person.
heard of chicken can make money, he borrowed 500 dollars from relatives, support from the chicken. But after a flood, the chicken had fowl plague, all the die off within a few days. 500 is probably not what others, rely on three acres of a life Susukida families, nothing less than astronomical. His mother could not bear the stimulus, even melancholy death. He later had
brewing wine over the fish catch, or even still in the quarry cliff to help people have not played embrasure ...... can earn money.
35 years old, he did not marry a wife. Even the divorced women with children are also failing to appreciate him. He just got a mud hut, at any time after a heavy rain may fall. Not on the wife to marry a man, no one think highly of in the rural areas.
but he would also like to give it a go, to borrow money to buy a tractor around. Unexpectedly, the road less than two weeks, carrying him into the tractor to a river. He broke a leg and became lame. And that tractor, was finish it, has been fragmented, he can only open it as scrap metal to sell.
almost all of them said he got a chance.
but later he became the city where I was the boss of a company, two billion of assets in the hands. Now, many people are aware of the suffering of his legendary past and business experience. Many of the media interviewed him, and many reports of literature describes him. But I only remember a plot -
reporter asked him: in the glass of water. Then he took the glass sub-grip in his hand, asked the reporter:
his hands for a song, the cup fell to the ground to issue clear voice, but not broken, but intact. He said: classic wonderful dialogue. Such a person, even if only one breath, he will try to pull the hand of the success, unless God deprived of his life ......
XXV, the opportunity to do
A white-collar workers in the joint venture , filled with ambitions do not feel appreciated by their superiors, often thought: if one day be able to see the manager, have the opportunity to showcase your own talents like it! !
A colleague B, also had the same idea, he then went to inquire about the time manager to work, to reckon when he would probably enter the elevator, he also flew at this time the elevator, hoping to meet CEOs , have the opportunity to say hello. C
further their colleagues. His struggle to learn more about CEOs, CEOs understand the graduate school, interpersonal style, concerns a few simple but well-designed portion of the opening, in good time to take the elevator operator, played a few times with the manager greeted after one day had a long talk with the manager, and soon to secure a better position.
fool missed opportunity for Wise grasp the opportunity to create opportunities for success. Opportunities are only prepared, and this for the word, not just words.
XXVI, madman and fool
a psychology professor at the visit to the madhouse to find a madman living conditions. One day down, that these people crazy, acting unexpectedly, can be considered an eye-opener.
not think of preparing to return, he found himself under the tires had been lost.
is serious. Actually under the tires of people are also under the screw out. There is no spare tire also do not increase the screw ah! Professor
unable to do anything. In his extremely anxious when skipping over a madman, and his mouth singing songs of joy unknown. He found the ailing professor, stopped and asked what had happened. Professor
too lazy to care for him, but out of courtesy or to tell him.
madman laughed: Professor Yu
grateful surprise, much curiosity: the world there are many people, because they found the work fun, and ordinary people do not always show the same enthusiasm, it was hard to understand. Many people joke that they are crazy, other people might still laughing his fool it.
man blankly, doing things smarter, especially in China, a good man after all, a gesture.
xxvii, Dr.
assigned to a research institute has a PhD and become one of the highest educated person.
one day to the unit after he went fishing a small pond, just either side of his deputy director, also fishing.
He just nodded his head slightly, the two undergraduate students, so what's good talk in it?
soon, is director of the down rod, stretch, rub Cengceng flying from the water to walk on the surface of the toilet.
Dr. eyes open almost fell off. Water Gone? Would not you? This is a pond ah.
came back after using the toilet is director, is also Cengceng rub floating back from the water.
how is it? A bad doctor to ask, what they are doctoral students!
after a while, the Deputy Director also stand up, walk a few steps, rub Cengceng drifting across the water to the toilet. This is Dr. erupted nearly fainted: Oh, no, arena master to a centralized place?
PhD also in urgency. Walls on either side of the pond, going to the toilet have to be around ten minutes across the road, and back to the unit on and too far, how do?
director of doctoral do not want to ask the two, hold for a long time, too, got up to cross the water: I can not believe undergraduates had water, I could not have doctoral students.
listen boom is heard, PhD plummeted to the water. Director
two pull him out, asked him why the water, he asked: As the rains flooded two days just below the water surface. We all know that the location of wood piles, so the stakes can be stepped over. do not ask how soon you do? Respect for the experienced people, to avoid detours. A good team, it should be a learning team.
xxviii, quit
A on B said: some color to see. but you have to leave now, is not the best time. ? ?
B said: leave the company, the company will be subject to significant losses, very passive. So work hard, then something like half a year of hard work, he has many loyal customers.
meet again B Q A: Now is the time, and to jump to act Oh!
A lightly smiles: CEOs had a long talk with me, ready to promote me to assistant general manager, I do not intend to leave out.
fact, this is what B's mind. A person's work, always just for their resumes. Only to pay more than get,
your boss than your ability to actually see the location and give you more opportunities to create more profit for him.
twenty-nine, three Jin
there was a small country to China, three identical tribute Jin, magnificent, the emperor pleased bad. But this small country is not kind, but the one subject: the three Jin Which is the most valuable?
emperor wanted a lot of ways, please check the jeweler, weight, work, are exactly the same. How to do? Angel still waiting to report it. Great country, not even the things they do not understand?
Finally, an old minister said he has a way. messenger of the Emperor will go to the main hall
, veteran chest to hold three successful enough straw, insert the first Jin's ears, ears that straw out the other side. The second straw Jin directly out from the mouth, and a third Jin, fell into the stomach after the straw into what does not ring. Old minister said: The third most valuable Jin! Messenger was silent, the answer is correct.
This story tells us that the most valuable, not necessarily the best person who can say. God gave us two ears and one mouth, that we had to listen to less talk. Good listener, who is the most basic quality mature.
thirty, master lace
play one show, he told his disciples loose shoelace. Masters nods his thanks, knelt down carefully is good. Turn until the disciples after he squatted down to loosen the laces.
have an observer to see all this, did not understand: journey let him loose shoelace, through the details of the performance of his tired haggard. a, and enthusiastically told me that I must protect his enthusiasm for this passion, in a timely manner to give him encouragement, as to why you want to untie the shoelace, there will be more opportunities to teach him to perform, you can say the next time ah .
XXXI, I Chen Chen Ado Ado
farmers in Taiwan, never too far out of the door. Save the rest of your life money, and finally participate in a tour group out of the country.
abroad was all very fresh, the key is to participate in a private tour Chen Ado, a person living a standard room. This allows him endless novelty.
morning, breakfast waiter knocked on the door sent cried: What does that mean? In his hometown, the general meeting strangers would ask: waiter knocked on the door every day, exclaimed: The waiters are too stupid to ask ourselves every day, What, told he can not remember, bored of. Finally he could not help but ask the tour guide, ! What a shame he died.
Chen Ado over and over
another day in the morning, the waiter knocked at the door as usual, opened the door and exclaimed Chen Ado:
This story tells us that human contact, often a contest of willpower willpower. Not you affect him, that he affected you, and we are to succeed, we must develop their own influence, only the influential people can be the strongest.
XXXII, dumpling skin has a rich kids especially sharp
eat dumplings every day to eat. But he particularly Diao, eat pie, and two to throw the skin behind the sharp river go.
did not last long, he was sixteen, a big fire to his family, the parents have died in Jinu. This time he had no money, but also embarrassed begging. Sister is very good neighbor, give him to eat a bowl of noodles every meal ambiguous. He is strenuously study, obtain an official post after three years back, we must thank the neighbors sister.
sister told him: Do not thank me. I did not give you anything, then you are my lost collection point dumpling skin, dry well where installed after the sack, wanted to prepare for contingencies in the. Exactly what you need to and paid you back.
high official thinking long, long time ......
There is a famous March Eighth theory: eight hours of sleep, eight hours work, that everyone is the same. The difference between people is how free time is spent. Time is the most affectionate and most ruthless thing, each have the same, very fair. However, not all people with the resources to succeed, make the best use of resources people will succeed. Figure survive the day, evening and development, which is the twenty-first century and talent requirements.
xxxiii, requires
three men to jail for three years, three of them one the warden had given a request.
Americans love cigars, to the three boxes of cigars.
French the most romantic, to be accompanied by a beautiful woman.
The Jews said, he wants to communicate with the outside of a telephone.
after three years, the first coming out of the Americans, his nose stuffed with cigars, shouted:
Then out of the French. I saw his hand holding a child, a beautiful woman hand holding a child, also with the third stomach.
final out of the Jews, who hold on tightly to the warden's hand and said: you a Laoshilaisi! Today's life is our choice by the decision three years ago, and today we will determine our choice after three years of life. We have to choose access to the latest information on the latest trends, in order to better create their own future.
xxxiv, when the tiger comes
two people in the forest, encountered a large tiger. A hurried off from behind a pair of lighter shoes replaced. B sudden death, and scolded: no sense of crisis is the biggest crisis. In particular the imminent entry, telecommunications, banking, insurance, and even those we think are very stable civil service and secure business, will face a lot of variables. When the tiger comes more, we have not prepared their own running shoes?
Fifty-two, the first
commencement, the principal announced the first full-year students came to accept the award,
called several times, but after a row, the student slowly onto the stage before .
Later, the teacher asked the students said: fame and fortune is the number of people tied the knot how many people? We are educated to be competitive and to succeed, but do our best to climb, but a few, the silent majority of the public after all.
think there are so many people like you and me, do not also very excited about something?
Fifty-three, justified
a bus full of passengers along the downhill fast forward, and there was a man chasing closely behind this bike.
a passenger in his head out the window of the car chase the person: is the driver of the car
must go all out but also because of the potential and the unknown nature of the instinct will eventually fully brought out.
Fifty-four, so it is
A: The Did you contact the police immediately? .
conflicts and disputes in the face when you first think about whether or lose heart, and perhaps soon won over.
One day, Mr Tan mountain road driving.
as he leisurely enjoy the beautiful scenery, the sudden oncoming truck,
mouthful of black teeth and roll down the windows drivers have cursed him: also grew more and more gas, roll down the window so he cursed back:
not err on the kindness of others, will only make his own hurt, and allow others to shame.
in unknown so before you learn to restrain emotions, patient observation, so that after the germinal remorse.
Fifty-five, Houshengkewei
little boy asked his father: asked: people, particularly vulnerable to a roadblock in front.
authority often can not withstand the test of the shell is just a child, especially in this modern era of diversity and openness.
Fifty-six, need to fear
Xiaoming bath accidentally swallowed a small piece of soap, his mother frantically called for help to family physicians.
doctor said: : Now that it has happened, why not openly and face.
worry about as soothing the poor poor happy than nervous.
Fifty-seven of the key
a solid big lock hanging on the door, an iron went to great lengths, or it can not be prized open.
the key here, his thin body got into the keyhole, just gently turn, big lock on the
Irons surprised, and asked:
everyone's heart is like a locked door, as you can and then pry the thick iron bars do not open.
only concern, to put himself into a delicate keys, into the hearts of others, understand others.
Fifty-eight, Chicken Soup of the four - the power of love (a)
human exploration of space, to conquer nature, will find that there is an even greater ability to own, that is, the power of love, When that day comes, the human civilization will move towards a new era.
- Then your neighbors close to you ......, so that each person has the feeling of warm spring breezes. To others a caring look, a smile, a warm hug, bear witness to God's mercy.
- Mother Teresa
25 years ago, there was a university professor to teach sociology, has asked students in the class to the slums of Baltimore, the survey of 200 boys upbringing and living environment, and their future make an assessment of the development of each student's conclusions are
25 years later, another professor came across the study, he asked students to do follow-up survey to see what these boys any situation. According to the survey results, in addition to 20 boys moved away or died, the remaining 176 180 in the extraordinary achievements, as lawyers, doctors and businessmen everywhere.
The professor was astounded and decided to further investigate the matter. He then visited the young people who have been assessed, they ask the same question with,
kindly old woman flashing light eyes, mouth with a smile, replied: Love is all pain will disappear
memories,
only true love never pay attention to room.
father and I talk to, he always first say: the passage of time, the father has entered old age, physical as before, but we love between father and daughter day than the day it is deep.
to 82 years old, he has been let go away the psychological preparation, and I want him out of pain or illness as soon as possible. We clasped each other's hands, smile and say goodbye to each other, but still could not resist the eyes full of tears. I said: But many of my personal experience but I have to suspect the
the so-called father and daughter with heart, when the man went to that moment, I could sense his chest a heart attack moments. What I regret that, due to certain provisions of the hospital, I actually can not, in his last breath while holding his hand.
father left, I prayed every day to hear his voice, he can fall asleep every night I look forward to, but still no reply; 4 months, I have heard only the relatives and friends of condolence. Mother as early as 5 years ago due to Alzheimer's disease died, I lost both parents, even past middle age, my heart is still as helpless as a child.
One day, I hide in the dark quiet room waiting for the master to help me massage, while thinking of his father's emotions and fill the chest, I began to wonder whether their own too eagerly look forward to hear his voice . Suddenly, I found my mind sharp exception, surprisingly clear head, even to me a long list of numbers I can add and subtract with ease, at first I suspect that he is living in a dream, but I was sure that this feeling is hundred percent true. The original chaotic thoughts in the brain, such as water droplets disturb the rest of the lake, this time is unusually calm, my mind on this change surprised that I realized that: Maybe I should not have such a force would like to get his father's message.
instant, I saw in the dark mother's face - she was sick before Rich goes on loving face: She is still head of white hair, his face still with a smile. Mother's image is so real clear, it seems that I can reach out and touch. Her appearance as before, and I even heard of Joy with her favorite perfume. She stood quietly in front of me, silent. I wonder why I think there is father, mother, there's it is also not my mother for a long time to feel a little guilty.
I said: She gave me a beautiful smile, then clearly he said:
room a sudden burst of cold, so cold I can not help but called into. At this point I deeply feel that the most important thing is we had to pay attention to each other; pain will disappear, only true love never pay attention to room.
mother, I awoke this sentence, until now, I will not forget to meet her at that moment.
Although I have not been his father's message, but I am convinced that one day he would appear unexpectedly in front of me, again: Broken Stan
sixties, love
God, ah! A humpbacked woman would be a tragedy, please, give me the hump, and then leave it to my beautiful bride.
Mexico? well-known German composer Felix Mendelssohn's grandfather. He looks very ordinary, in addition to five short stature, the hunchback was a strange ridiculous.
day, he went to Hamburg to visit a merchant, the merchant had a beloved daughter named Fu Xi, Mexico hopelessly in love with her, but because of his deformed appearance Fuxi refused him.
to be leaving, Mexico muster all the courage, the room upstairs to Fu Xi, grasp the last opportunity to speak to her. She has an angelic face, but he was very depressed so that Fuxi always refused to look the other him. After several attempts of communication, he was shy to ask: > He replied: My bride was a hunchback.
A humpbacked woman would be a tragedy, please, give me the hump, and then leave it to my beautiful bride. 'Judge
to hold the lives of others a little bit different, a little light how easy ah!
Lixiapuluo a retired judge, he very nature of love. Throughout his life, he always loved the premise because he understood the power of love is the greatest. so he is always hugging. his college classmates gave him a Hug me! invited him to meetings or conferences related to speech; always share his because they choose to participate, but in real life is not feasible. I Lixiapuluo, everyone told me to 'hug a judge'. I love and you can use them for a hug. camera closely followed. Then he said: Is well known that the bus driver in Los Angeles the most intractable and whiny, bad temper. Let us look at you from a driver who has been to embrace it? Judge Lee I, people call me 'hug a judge'. Driving is a stressful job Oh! Today, I want to hug some people, good people can remove the burden, and then continue working. Do you need a hug? .
day, Lee's friend Nancy? Johnston to visit him. She is a professional clown, dressed in clown costumes, clown mask painting.
Lee invited her to come with a disability home, visit friends there.
After they arrived, they began distributing balloons, hats, hearts, and embrace where the patients. Lee and feeling very sad, because he had never hugged before dying patients, severe mental retardation or quadriplegic person. just started very reluctantly, but after children, Nancy and Lee encouraged by doctors and nurses after they feel that much easier.
hours, they finally came to the last ward. In There, Lee saw the situation in his life had seen the worst of the 34 patients, his mood suddenly become very complicated. Their mission is to love points out, the lights light up the hearts of patients, so Lee and Nancy will joy began to circulate. At this point the whole room was crowded with staff encouraging.
them all close to the little red collar, his head was also wearing a cute balloon hat.
Lee came to the last patient last Leo? Nader before. Leo wearing a white bib, looked sluggish in Liuzhuokoushui. Liuzhuokoushui when Lee see him, and Nancy said: laugh laugh, other patients began tinkled in the room. Lee back to ask how health care is one thing when I saw all the doctors, nurses cried. Lee had asked the nurse what happened the.
Lee will never forget her answer: others who also will be the respect of others. Just as standing in front of a mirror, like you anger he was angry, and you laugh he laughed.
a teacher to teach in New York decided to tell her students how they are important, to express their praise.
she decided to adopt a practice that I advocate, that is, the students go to the podium one by one, and then tell the students the entire class and the importance to her, and then give each a blue ribbon, with gold above the words read: thanks to the ceremony, and then observe the result, a week after reporting back to class.
a boy to a nearby classroom to find a young director of the company, because he had guided his complete life planning.
boy Do not be a blue ribbon on his shirt, and more to the two individual pin, and then explained, people, to give you the extra pins, so that they can do the same to others thanks to the ceremony. Next time, tell me, do produce results. creative talent, the boss listened very surprised.
He then asked the young director to accept a blue ribbon, and allowed him to help him not on. a look of surprise, owner readily agreed.
young man Do the ribbons boss jacket, just above the location of the heart, and gave him the remaining pins, and then asked him: Give you this ribbon is also thanked. It gave me a boy, he is conducting a study. We want to thank the ceremony this continue, we will have to see what kind of effect. In the office when a young colleague told me that he admired very much the creation of my talent, gave me a blue ribbon. Think about it, he thought that my creative talent worthy of respect, even printed with 'I'm important' of the ribbon do on my jacket, but also gave me a pin number so that I can give your thank the distinguished people, when I was driving home tonight to start thinking about pin should give who? I think of you, you are I want to thank people.
yelled at you. but tonight, I just want to sit here and let you know how important you are to me, except your mother, you are my life the most important person. boy, I love you. He watched his father, burst into tears and said: Love is not old, it keep the eternal flame and the immortal glory of the world exists, using it as nutrients.
- Zola
this moving story, took place in a bus, on the bus along a remote highway south stumble.
passenger car, there was a thin old man, his hand holding a bouquet of flowers, the car over the church, up a girl, intently watched the old flowers.
to the old man about to get off, he suddenly impulsively to the flowers in their hands into the girl's arms. He quickly explained: After receiving bunch of flowers, watched the old man get off, watched him slowly come to a small cemetery gates.
Sixty-four, her brother's wish
should put yourself in mind to think, not that happy people more than we do, but only those that we are more compassionate than others.
- Rousseau
Christmas, his brother Paul, a new car. Christmas Day, Paul left the office, a boy walking around the shiny new car, admiring it and asked: to me for Christmas. ..
Paul looked at the boy blurted out to invite him: eyes filled with excitement, said: home.
Paul did not think this was wrong again.
boy ran up the ladder, he came back after a while children heard the voice of Paul, but the action seems a bit slow. His brother had come out with a lame, placed him on the steps, hug him tightly, pointed to the car.
just listen to the boy told his brother: This car, by that time you will be able to see those beautiful hanging Christmas ornaments in the window was. Bright eyed boy climbed in and sat next to his brother. Three of them began a memorable holiday ride.
that it was a Christmas Eve, Paul learned what Jesus had said
Sixty-five, courage
phase as long as life and death were, that is, the pain may become a joy.
- Roman? Roland
I had as a volunteer at Stanford Hospital, then met a girl named Lisa. She suffered from severe illness, the condition is rare, the only chance to save her life, is to accept year-old younger brother of blood transfusion, Because her brother has suffered from the disease, then being miraculously saved, and now the body to produce antibodies that can fight the virus. The doctor explained the situation this little boy and asked him if he is willing to blood transfusion for her sister. I saw him hesitate only a half a second, then deeply Xikou Qi said: 'If we can save Lisa, I would.' He could not help smiling.
But then he put away his smile, his face looked pale doctor asked with a trembling voice: 'I will soon die do?' small, misunderstood the meaning of the doctor, thought to have lost the body's blood sister. > - Dan? Milman
Sixty-six, speak out your love
anyone who does not love, one who will not understand life.
- Gorky
One time I was invited to the field, made a speech on efficient management. Arrived in the evening, the organizers of the few people invited me to dinner, to listen to a lecture tomorrow by the way talk about what the audience is.
Ed is obviously the leader in these people, a big man, the sound is very low. He told me that he was the manager of large international companies, the main duty is to some branches within the company more difficult to deal with personnel issues, termination of employment of certain senior executives.
I smile in silence, because I know tomorrow is absolutely different from his imagination.
next day, Ed dazed in the audience listening to speech, and then leave the meeting without a word.
Three years later, I return to the old way, to the same audience in another article about the management of speech, I also found audiences in the Ed. Immediately prior to the speech, he suddenly stood up, pulled his throat asked me: a few words to say a few words, I can not stop you. . Joe, surely I will make you feel pleased with these words. say I love you. At first I quite disagree on this point, I thought, then looking over this disgusting and will be able to link anything to do with tenacity? Joe said tenacity and hard of different, tough as leather, hard is like granite, and a will to tough people should be thinking of opening, perseverance, behavioral self-discipline, work flexibility, these words I agree, but this has anything to do with love? If the brain is still thinking about Joe. instant drum I can not afford to find themselves the courage to express love to his wife, and I cleared his throat several times, but the words to the mouth, just made some vague sound, then swallowed the rest of the back. My wife looked up and asked what I muttered, and I replied nothing without work. Suddenly, I got up to her, nervously holding her hands open the newspaper and said: 'Ai Liz, I love you. 'She could not say live for quite a while, the tears came to her eyes, as she whispered:' Ed, I love you, this is the first time in 25 years you speak love me. 'contacted. I heard his voice would blurt out: 'son, maybe you thought I was drunk, but now I am awake. I'm calling to just want to tell you I love you.' microphone end of the line was silent for a moment, then said quietly, voice: 'Dad, I know you love me, I'm glad to hear you tell me personally, I have to tell you I love you.' Homely, very pleasant chat. Then I called the youngest son in San Francisco and told him the same thing, the results of our father and son talk about for a long time, that warm feeling I never had.
positive impact. . the joy of confidence. But most importantly, I now understand that the best way to respect others is to encourage them to play to their ability to achieve the purpose of the joint efforts of everyone. this opportunity, I want to say thank you. the way with you mention, I am now the vice director of the company, leadership, popular recognition. Well, everyone, and now concentrate on listening to his speech it! Tony Burton
Sixty-seven, more than a hope that the more people with each other, the more you want to give the other party will surely ...... more intimate.
few days ago, I and a friend in New York in a taxi, get off, the friends of the driver, said: You are mixing up the underworld? drive away.
take the lead. I believe that one day little compliment can make the driver happy, if he set out today, 20 passengers, 20 passengers, he would have this attitude and good, and these passengers by the driver of the infection, will be pleasant for the people around. this means, my good intentions can be communicated to more than 1,000 people indirectly, good, right? as many as 3,000 people. He also received a few tips, no less. If the person indifferent, that's no harm, tomorrow I can go to another taxi driver praised Yeah! Service was really bad ah! 5 workers are side lunch. My friend stopped in her tracks,
who may be a word for me to work even more vigorously, which everyone is sure a good thing? pretty mediocre woman through, you smile to her?
silent wish
pure innocence, often move people better than words - Shakespeare
26-year-old pro-gazing her son suffered from hemophilia and dying. Although her heart was filled with sorrow, but she also determined, like other parents, she hopes his son will grow up, to achieve all your dreams. Now this would be possible, because the disease will always haunt him. Even so, she still hoped that his son's dream can be realized.
holding her son's hand and asked: always wanted to grow up to be firefighters. Phoenix, the local fire department, firefighters found Bob, he had a large heart. The mother explained to him the wish of his son dying, and I ask if he could get fire engines turn the corner a few laps.
Bob said: can go to the fire brigade to, and have dinner, along with attendance. By the way, if you give me his size, we can help him build a true system of the eye of fire, added a real fire hat, not the toys, hats, there are even Phoenix Fire Department badges, printed yellow waterproof clothing we wear and rubber boots. these things are manufactured in the city of Phoenix, so you can quickly get. Bob firefighters with Babo Xi, to help him put the fire uniform and escorted him from the hospital bed to the fire trucks. Babo Xi must be sitting in the car behind, Bob lead him back to the fire brigade, who feel like being in heaven.
from day 3 Phoenix fire, Babo Xi always come to service. He took a different fire engine, ambulance, fire chief or even the car. He also shot video of local news programs.
the dream come true, and filling in him all the love and care so deeply moved by Babai Xi, than the doctors expected him to live for 3 months.
one night, all his vital signs began to drop rapidly, nurse call the family members rushed to the hospital. Then she remembered Babo Xi
served as a firefighter, so she called the fire chief, asked if he could send a fireman in uniform to the hospital, before dying in the Babai Xi accompany him. The captain replied: but the fire brigade to see them good partners one last time. Please open the windows of his room, thank you. there were 14 firefighters, two female firefighters climbed up the ladder into the Babai Xi's room. After his mother's consent, they embraced him, shook his hand and told him how much they loved him.
Babo Xi last breath, watching the fire chief, said:
with those words, Babo Xi smiled and closed his eyes.
